We miss the plot when we reduce intimacy to “closeness”
intimacy in the relational field means that we are responsible for our own pain points.
It means that i am so attuned to my ♥inner spaz♥ that i can let someone else notice her, too
Intimacy is only possible through a practice of being uncomfortable, slowly and on purpose, so as to move from stuck to free.
We do this by consistent and spirited efforts in getting to know ourselves beyond The Feed.
Without this self relating, i am a busted lid on a pressure cooker.
sputtering and sus.
Who wants to be close to that??
noah fence, but intimacy is the difference between living and being alive
Notice how we talk to our people, are we removing our true selves from the discourse? flattening fertile connection ground with semantics,
stories about other people’s money,
“this ____ used to be this, and now it’s this.”
or “good”
scamming and finessing its way into a complete sentence.
*spoken in a no agenda voice*
How did that feel for you?
What did you notice?
How do you define _____?
Tell me more about your experience of-
intimacy is peace, it is heart centred curiosity that reverses the poison of assumption
Intimacy is predicated on safety
safety is never guaranteed
it’s an inside job, it’s creative. it feels like establishing the inner authority figure who can compassionately supervise everyone else in there
(hi ♥spaz♥)
It feels like giving a big smooch to the great mystery
I wonder, a lot lately, about the “safety” in the risk-avoidance of feeling Bad, weighed against the boring and limited dimensions of false intimacy
…so i guess we better get to it ;-) !!!
★workshop announcement★
NO BODY DREAMING
dreams are beyond material time and body, just like our relationship to our ancestors
dreams, when (re)established as valuable data and prayer technology, are powerful beyond measure
dreams tell the truth to our earth body
dreams support us in resolving conflict with miraculous capacity
dreams are relationally intelligent, they are highways to our collective expansion
dreams are a counsel among our millefeuille layers of consciousness
whether psychedelic or mundane, dreams are our hidden parts asking to be seen
dreams are one place where we can refer to our original instruction manual
towards more correct emergence
Join me for my first ever cohort of no body dreaming, where we get curious about our body (the hardware) in relation to our mind and spirit (the individual and collective software) by way of our dreams
With arms uncrossed and a smiling heart
we can expect to learn careful and rich dream decoding practices
Using simple somatic techniques to warm up and melt down
(in a good way)
While stirring in a little metaphysical spirituality,
And lots of noticing,
meaningful gathering,
To invite more reverence
towards the alchemy of personal struggle and beyondLiterally dreaming and proverbially waking up together,
within the intimacy of 5 participants over 5 weeks
lateral learning! no distorted expertism or hierarchy
divesting from the illusion of separation, so cute and awkward sometimesfifty five dollars for all five sessions (~pilot cohort special~)
in person in vancouver, every thursday from January 30th to February 27th 6:30-8PM
to secure your participation and get additional details, respond to this letter
peace,
sara
in person not fair !!! love you spaz <3